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Purim 5687: "I Accept Upon Myself the Four Executions"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 256-257, no. 95

At a terrifying Purim farbrengen in 5687 (1927), the Rebbe screamed against the Yevsektzia — 'a rabbi's son, a butcher's son, a villager's son' — declaring he was not frightened of them, and unbuttoned his kapota until his tallis katan showed, calling out that he accepted upon himself the four forms of execution and that when they saw his body aflame they should have no compassion. When the chossid R. Meir Simcha shouted that the Rebbe was needed here, the Rebbe kept repeating that one must be ready to give one's life but must not send the children to their schools. Because informers were known to be present, those there called his mother the Rebbetzin to restrain him; he rose when she came but sent her back to her room to say Tehillim with tears where no one would see, saying that would help, and told her he was not acting on his own initiative but had asked his father. She kept standing and speaking until he fainted and barely revived; everyone was in dread, and the arrest came after Shavuos.

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How Reb Aizel's Father Came Around at the Seder

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 302-303, no. 35

The zeide related Reb Aizel's own account of how he became a chossid of the Alter Rebbe: whenever the Alter Rebbe heard of a promising young scholar he would send a shliach to draw him close to Chassidus, and such a shliach came to Homil after Sukkos and brought Reb Aizel to Liozna. Returning home for Pesach, Reb Aizel established a minyan davening nusach Chabad, but his father R. Mordechai — who spent much time in Leipzig and kept his distance from chassidim — returned shortly before Pesach and forbade him, on the grounds of honoring one's father, from davening there. At the seder, hearing his son's brilliant expositions on the Haggadah, R. Mordechai understood that Chassidus had not harmed him, permitted him to return to the minyan the next morning, joined the minyan himself for the rest of Pesach, and by Shavuos traveled with Reb Aizel to Liozna.

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The Dowry and the Villager's Wagons

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 79-80, no. 6

The Alter Rebbe asked the Tzemach Tzedek where his dowry money was; told it had been given to a wealthy man in Vitebsk to invest, he asked whether the Tzemach Tzedek would take it back and place it in the chest of contributions for the Rabbi Meir Baal HaNess fund. The Tzemach Tzedek remained silent, and shortly afterward the wealthy man went bankrupt and the money was lost. When the Tzemach Tzedek's wife came in tears to her grandfather, the Alter Rebbe said, "Should my own children not listen to me?" — and told how the Maggid had once sent him and a companion on a mission, where a Jew living fifty verst from the nearest town, hearing them wonder aloud how a Jew could never hear Borchu or Kedushah, had his wagons loaded to move to town before they had even finished davenen, once he learned they were the Rebbe's students.

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The Man Who Wept for Reb Aizel

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 307-308, no. 42

The zeide related that when Reb Aizel passed away, one man who was not among his students wept uncontrollably. Asked why, he explained that in his youth he had set out to commit a transgression, and Reb Aizel, walking behind him after davening in the Lubavitcher shul, shouted twice, 'Where are you going!? Go to shul and recite some Tehillim!' He said Reb Aizel had saved his life, and asked how he could not cry over such a tzaddik. Reb Aizel used to tell him, 'You have mazel,' and the zeide revealed the man's identity only after he passed away.

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Standing the Entire Yom Kippur, Then Sitting Down to Learn

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 338-340, no. 37

R. Yitzchak HaCohen Kahaneman of Sosnitza, who transported tobacco from Sosnitza to Riga, passed through Homil on erev Yom Kippur on his way home and was greeted briefly by his son-in-law, the narrator's zeide, Mordechai Yoel. R. Yitzchak finished davening, completed the entire Tehillim with a minyan, and lay down to rest, waking hours later to find his son-in-law still standing and davening — he stood the whole night and day. After the fast ended at Maariv, the zeide told him, "Shver, don't be upset with me, but Reb Aizel said that after an entire day without Torah study one must sit and learn," and went off to study.

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The Note Left on the Table: Tehillim for All Chassidim

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 255-256, no. 94

A note written by the Rebbe was found on the high table in his room after his arrest on Wednesday, 15 Sivan 5687 (1927) in Leningrad, and was later printed in Kuntres Yud-Beis Tammuz 5708. R. Pinchas, son of R. Eliyahu Chaim [Althoiz], kept the note hidden in Leningrad and would take it out, together with two letters the Rebbe wrote on Yud-Beis Tammuz, at the farbrengen held in his home every Yud-Beis Tammuz, and they would be read aloud. In the note the Rebbe instructs that in every chassidishe shul the daily portion of Tehillim be said with a minyan after Shacharis, including Shabbos, followed by Kaddish, and that shopkeepers and businessmen come to daven and to the Ein Yaakov class, promising Hashem's help with abundant livelihood. He tells chassidim to say that he instructs them, and other Yidden that out of Ahavas Yisroel and their well-being he begs them, closing with a blessing for a good year in ruchnius and gashmius and the complete Redemption through Moshiach.

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"After Kol Nidrei They're Already Singing?!"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 337-338, no. 36

R. Yosef Lubavitcher, known as Der Fetter Yosele and an uncle of the Tzemach Tzedek, spent Yom Kippur in Chernigov, where R. Nochum Chernigover — a student of Reb Aizel and a chossid of the Mitteler Rebbe — served as rov. Before Kol Nidrei he took his place along a wall and stood there until the following evening. When the customary joyous singing broke out after Neilah, he ran to R. Nochum and protested, "What an unprincipled city you have! After Kol Nidrei they're already singing?!" The narrator's zeide told the story to describe the depth of the chassidim of earlier generations.

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Ti Krav — The Thief at the Inn

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 376, no. 14

In the village of a chossid of Rebbe Moshe Leib of Sassov a theft occurred and the thief could not be found. The tzaddik instructed the chossid to recite chapter 119 of Tehillim as Shabbos drew to a close. As the gentiles gathered at the inn for whiskey after Havdalah, the chossid reached the posuk 'tikrav rinasi lefanecha' and said it aloud — 'ti krav' meaning 'you have stolen' in Ukrainian — whereupon a gentile who had just walked in cried out that he had not done it, his neighbor so-and-so had.

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The Suitcase in Petersburg

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 111-112, no. 57

The narrator's zeide told how the Tzemach Tzedek, in Petersburg for the government ministry conference, fought intensely against the authorities' plans. Asked where his determination came from, he said it lay in his suitcase; when they opened it they found his burial shrouds. The minister replied, "You are looking to sacrifice your life, but we only give lashings." The zeide also related that when the children objected that their mother would be terrified by the shrouds, the Tzemach Tzedek answered that this was exactly what he wanted — that she should beg the Eibershter for help, since she is truly the daughter of a Torah sage.

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When Itchele Farbrengs, Heaven Asks What Happened

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 368-369, no. 4

R. Yitzchak Masmid related that in a small town lived an eminent chossid, R. Itchele. A wealthy man whose daughter had fallen ill gave him money for a pidyon nefesh — and instead the chossid gathered his chassidim for a festive seudah and farbrengen. Challenged by the gvir, he explained that Itchele fasting and weeping is nothing new before G-d, but when Itchele gathers his chassidim and farbrengs, Heaven asks what the occasion is and discovers that the gvir's daughter is ill — which he applied to the verse "And He looked upon their distress when He heard their rejoicing."

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The Maamarim Written in Prison, Until They Took Away the Pencil

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 260-261, no. 99

When the narrator and his brother-in-law Yitzchak Minkovitch came into the children's room, the Rebbe asked whether they had learned Chassidus during the period of his imprisonment; they answered that they had recited Tehillim. The Rebbe said that he himself had written maamarim until his pencil was taken away. A few hours later he gave them the Shavuos maamarim, inscribed "Written in prison, 19 Sivan 5687" and "Written in prison, 20 Sivan 5687"; the last word of the text was "light." When the narrator later asked in Malachovka for the end of the maamar, the Rebbe answered, "Nothing more came."

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The Sack That Stayed Full

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 375-376, no. 13

An elder Chernobyler chossid passing through Leningrad told of a chossid who used to fast from one Shabbos to the next and was told by his teacher that this was unnecessary. The chossid objected that the Baal Shem Tov fasted from Shabbos to Shabbos during his solitary meditations. His teacher answered that the Baal Shem Tov took a sack full of food with him when he walked the mountains from Kitov to Kosov, and only on Friday discovered the sack was still full — his 'I have forgotten to eat my bread' came from deveikus to G-dliness, not from undertaking a fast.

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The Bochur Full of False Ideas

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 158-159, no. 37

R. Moshe Aizel Rabkin, a gvir from Homil, reported hearing the Rebbe speak at a farbrengen — the narrator thinks it was Purim in Menton — about the special qualities of Tomchei Temimim. The Rebbe recounted that a young man had come to Lubavitch seeking acceptance into the yeshivah, was rejected by the administration, and when sent in to the Rebbe was found to be filled with false ideas — yet the Rebbe instructed that he be accepted. Much later, after a levayah in Lubavitch, the Rebbe entered the small zal to recite Yoshev Be'seiser seven times and found that same young man standing there deeply engrossed in davening, oblivious to the commotion.

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Tea or Mincha First?

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 160-161, no. 39

R. Yekusiel Golodetz also related that R. Yitzchak Yoel Rofolovitz, the rov of Kremenchug, was arguing late one Friday afternoon with R. Shmuel Gurary over whether one should drink tea first or daven Mincha first. The Rebbe passed by and they told him what they were debating. The Rebbe answered: if you want to drink tea in a relaxed manner, daven Mincha first; but if you want to daven Mincha in a relaxed way, you can drink the tea first.

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The Seudas Hodaah in Leningrad

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 270-272, no. 113

The Rebbe arrived in Leningrad on Friday, the 15th of Tammuz, and before Kabbalas Shabbos gave the handwritten text of HaGomel to his son-in-law R. Shmaryahu Gurary to be studied beforehand. When asked whether there would be Chassidus on Shabbos, the Rebbe replied that "they are giving me one Shabbos." A Kiddush was held; his davening ran late and was heard through the white door with the nigun of Avinu Malkeinu, and at the table he said several times during the farbrengen, "This is the Seudas Hodaah" — for it was in Leningrad that he said the bracha of HaGomel. This surprised everyone, since the conventional assumption was that he should have said it in Kostrama, especially as the sentence had unfolded "above to below": a death decree commuted to ten years in Solovki and then reduced to three years of exile in Kostrama.

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The Animal Soul Resists Only Davening and Traveling to the Rebbe

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 312, no. 51

Reb Aizel explained, with a nigun, that when the Alter Rebbe would say Chassidus the nefesh ha'bahamis would flee, whereas nowadays one can listen to and study Chassidus while the animal soul remains at full strength and untroubled — it resists only davening at length and traveling to the Rebbe. The narrator adds that his zeide (רמ"י) reported hearing from the baalei batim of Sosnitza, where the zeide was a son-in-law, that whenever they needed to travel to the Tzemach Tzedek the greatest obstacles would arise; yet once they overcame them and set out, on the way back from Lubavitch they saw that the obstacles had been utterly nothing.

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Adoneinu Moreinu VeRabbeinu

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 54-55, no. 34

Reb Groinem, the mashpia in Lubavitch, told how one Simchas Torah the Alter Rebbe was called to recite the pesukim of Atah Horeisah with the title 'Adoneinu Moreinu VeRabbeinu.' Seeing his face glow, they repeated the phrase again later. The next day he was overheard pacing his room, bitterly repeating the words with a nigun and saying that had he had a pit he would have buried himself alive; when asked how this fit with the glow they had all seen, he answered that when afflictions are sent one must accept them with love.

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"Nu, You'll Probably Say Yevarechecha"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 262, no. 101

The Rebbe's mother, Rebbetzin Shterna Sarah, and his wife, Rebbetzin Nechama Dinah, wearing white silk scarves, accompanied the Rebbe to the train station. From the coach window the Rebbe told his mother that it is true that "Hashem our G-d will be with us, as He was with our forefathers," and it will surely be, "Let Him not leave us, nor forsake us." Then, turning to those standing there, he said, "Ah, such an unnecessary trip. Nu, you'll probably say Yevarechecha."

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Something to Daven With

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 343, no. 42

The zeide told of a young man who came out of yechidus with the Tzemach Tzedek bursting with joy and turning somersaults in the courtyard, because the Rebbe had said Chassidus to him in the meeting. Asked how it happened, the young man related that he had requested, 'Rebbe, say Chassidus for me,' and when the Rebbe asked what he needed Chassidus for, he answered, 'I need something to daven with.' The Rebbe told him to meditate on how Hashem fills all worlds, encompasses all worlds, and how everything is utterly nothing before Him. The young man was Bera, the Patzitzer Rav.

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The Washing Machine and the Leather Coat

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 475-476, no. 20

In 5723 (1962), when R. Yisroel Duchman was earning very little, he served as a chazan in a nearby shul for Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur, earning around $300, which he set aside to buy the family a washing machine. That year an uncle came from Eretz Yisroel for a bracha to marry off his three older daughters; in yechidus the Rebbe told him that if he grew a beard he would find good shidduchim for them, but the uncle, clean shaven and ten years older than his wife, was certain she would not agree. Knowing that their aunt badly wanted a leather coat the couple could not afford, the Duchmans gave away all the money saved for their much-needed washing machine so the uncle could buy it for her. He began to grow his beard, and within a few months all three daughters found good shidduchim.

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The Candle Told Me

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 366-368, no. 2

The scholarly author of Meir Nesivim came to the Baal Shem Tov and challenged him to say what he was thinking; the Baal Shem Tov answered that he was meditating on the Divine Name, and added that he was doing so with its vowel markings. Asked how he knew — "Did the candle on your table tell you?" — the Baal Shem Tov replied that yes, the candle told him, and that a fellow candle had also reported something the scholar had done in front of candles that should not be done before them. Deeply shaken, the man admitted it was true, explaining that the candle had appeared to burn out and then flared up again.

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Chopping Through the Ice Before Davening

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 311-312, no. 50

Reb Aizel related that when they were yungeleit they would learn standing on their feet the entire night. In the morning they went out without fur coats — not for lack of them but by choice — took axes to chop through the ice, immersed, and only then davened. He added that this cannot be expected of yungeleit today, but learning and davening are still doable.

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"You Have No Concept of How One Must Love a Yid"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 313, no. 53

One Pesach, after davening had finished and everyone was ready to leave, the narrator's zeide asked them to wait. They went to Reb Aizel's room, where he was sitting on a sofa, and upon seeing them he said, "You have no concept of how one must love a Yid. What is a Yid? Neshamah, emunah, and Torah and mitzvos. How could one not love that?" He repeated the words, and all who had stayed were very glad they had.

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Except the Fear of Heaven

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 129-130, no. 21

The narrator's uncle, R. Yehudah Leib Chasdan, the shochet from Homil, said he heard directly from the Rebbe Maharash an interpretation of "Everything is in the hands of Heaven except the fear of Heaven": everything is given only if Heaven wishes to give it and withheld if not — except yiras shamayim, which, when one asks for it, is given. A footnote observes that this reverses the plain meaning, which places yiras shamayim in a person's own hands, into a promise that sincere supplication draws it down from Above without restriction.

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Yodei Teruah, Not Tokei Teruah

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 58, no. 41

In his old age Reb Chaim Avraham, a son of the Alter Rebbe, would travel to hear the Tzemach Tzedek blow the shofar. The Rebbe Maharash asked him why he troubled himself when he could easily assemble a minyan of his own for the tekios. He answered that the posuk says 'ashrei ha'am yodei teruah' — happy are the people who know the teruah, not those who blow it.

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"Maybe Then I Will Daven Better"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 170-171, no. 55

In 5685 (1925) the tomim R. Yisroel Zuravitzer — R. Yisroel Jacobson, who lived in Homil — was in Leningrad, and the Frierdiker Rebbe sent him to Rostov for Beis Nissan. Coming out of yechidus he reported that the Rebbe had told him to speak at the ohel as one speaks in yechidus — "Rebbe, I am a shliach of my mother, you know her name, and of myself" — and to go to the ohel early, since for him it would be after davening while for the Rebbe it would be before davening, "maybe as a result I will daven better." The narrator testifies that on that Beis Nissan, after Shemoneh Esrei and before chazaras hashatz, the Rebbe signaled him to bring a chair and sat down, so exhausted was he from his davening.

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"Hurrying Comes From a Soul's Lowliness"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 137-138, no. 9

On motzaei Yom Kippur 5675 (1914), after an unusually late Neilah, Maariv and Kiddush Levanah, Rebbetzin Shterna Sarah told the Rebbe that her son had not yet broken his fast. When he came in he explained that he had drunk a glass of cold water, remarking that the davening had run so late that Yechiel the chazan, who traveled to raise funds for Tomchei Temimim, could already have covered several villages. The Rebbe answered that he had long ago said that hurrying comes from a soul's lowliness, told him to sit down, and when he would not, said, "You're starting already in the new year?!"

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Kiddush on Liquor, and a Davening the Rebbetzin Barely Survived

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 163-164, no. 44

R. Yosef Yozik Gurevitch of Warsaw related that when he and his son-in-law R. Feivel Zalmanov came to the Rebbe outside of Russia, the Rebbe instructed them to be mekabel shalom. Invited to the Rebbe on Shabbos evening when no wine was available, the Rebbe said it does not feel right to hold a knife while reciting Kiddush and told them to make Kiddush over liquor, though he himself recited Kiddush over challah. When they returned Shabbos morning the Rebbetzin asked whether they had davened, and said of the Rebbe, "Ah! How he davened! I barely survived!"

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The Kiddush in Leningrad While the Rebbe Was in Kostrama

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 263, no. 102

On the Shabbos when the Rebbe was already in Kostrama, a Kiddush was held for a few people at his home in Leningrad. The children said their mother was making Kiddush because their father was now free — though the Rebbe himself held otherwise, since he had not received Maftir and had not recited HaGomel. Rebbetzin Shterna Sarah, seated on the sofa near the dining room window, recounted that the Rebbe had told her, "Mama, mama, robbers! They wanted to take revenge," and that every day he was in prison he recited Aneinu, and that his interrogators had asked him, "Are you the Lubavitcher Rebbe, the Jewish leader?" Repeating the words "the Jewish leader," she asked why he must be under the regime of such robbers.

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"You Surely Had No Appropriate Thoughts"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 316, no. 57

Someone once davened very quickly before the amud in Reb Aizel's presence, and Reb Aizel asked him why he was rushing. The man answered that he davened fast in order to avoid any improper thoughts. Reb Aizel replied, "I don't know whether you had any improper thoughts, but you surely had no appropriate thoughts."

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Seeing the Rebbe at the Ohel on Erev Rosh Hashanah

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 133-134, no. 3

On erev Rosh Hashanah 5667 (1906) or 5668 (1907), while at the Ohel of the Tzemach Tzedek and the Rebbe Maharash, children told the narrator he could see the Rebbe standing inside by climbing the wall, since the ohel was open to the sky. He saw the Rebbe in a silk hat and black coat with a white silk scarf, holding a long pidyon sheet in one hand and a bundle of further requests in the other, his face extraordinarily pale; seized with terror, the narrator leaped down. He always regretted having jumped, until the Rebbe Rayatz's notes printed in Kuntres Beis Nissan 5710 extolled the merit of gazing at his father at the ohel, which filled him with joy.

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On Foot from Krasnoye: Shavuos 5674 in Lubavitch

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 143-144, no. 15

In the summer of 5674 the railroad added a cheap fourth class, halving the fare from Homil to Krasnoye. Wanting to be in Lubavitch for Shavuos, the narrator took his tefillin and slipped away to the train, telling his brother to announce that evening that he had left; on his return his zeide, R' Mordechai Yoel, told him he had acted correctly but should have told him, since he would have given him a three-ruble note for the road. From Krasnoye he walked to Lubavitch on foot, and the spiritual pleasure of that Shavuos was extraordinary: the Rebbe himself led the weekday davening during the mourning period for his mother, Rebbetzin Rivkah, and once, saying 'echad' of Shema in deep concentration, he snapped his fingers.

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"Where Did You Put Her?" — Two Great Jews After a Loss

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 145-146, no. 17

Rebbetzin Shterna Sarah told R. Yaakov Mordechai that she wanted to describe how two outstanding Jews meet after such an event. The Rebbe Rashab's first words to the Rebbe Rayatz were, "Where did you put her?" — and on hearing that she had been buried on the other side of the ohel near her husband, the Rebbe Maharash, he answered, "Good; I thought that had you placed her elsewhere I would have had to move her to her husband's side." R. Yaakov Mordechai further related that, in keeping with the halachah of three days of weeping, the Rebbe Rashab could not stop crying in those first days; arriving in Lubavitch he went to his mother's house to daven Mincha, and wept deeply at the words "Tzadik Hashem b'chol drachav."

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R. Zalman Duchman's Daily Seder in 770

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 449-450, no. 50

Though he lived in America for over twenty years, R. Zalman never learned English and continued to live exactly as he had in Lubavitch. He slept from 11 pm until before 3 am and kept a fixed daily study program — Zohar on the parsha, Torah Ohr or Likutei Torah on the parsha, and the daily portion of Tehillim — always completing the full weekly cycle of each, followed by mikvah, more study, and shacharis. In his corner of the original 770 shul he would wait for kaddish, chazoras hashatz and krias haTorah and then daven for hours, on Shabbos until two or three in the afternoon. He devoted much of his day to maamorim and the Rebbe's sichos, attended R. Mentlik's weekly sicha shiur, and in old age enjoyed the bochurim's company, unhesitatingly asking a bochur fifty years his junior to repeat a sicha or learn with him as a chavrusa.

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After All the Kavanos, Kabbolas Ol

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 386-387, no. 11

At tekias shofar on the second day of Rosh Hashanah, the narrator recalls seeing in Lubavitch how the Rebbe Rashab, after all the lengthy preparations and weeping during the Haftorah and the pesukim, simply arranged his tallis and said the brachos. He connects this to a conclusion reached at a chassidic farbrengen: after all the kavanos, the mitzvah must be done with kabbalas ol. Visualizing this in the same setting, he adds, brings to mind his zeide's teaching that the crowns descend one from another, i.e. that the Rebbeim are extensions of one another.

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"Those Were Early Chassidim" — Eating Before Davening

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 456-457, no. 60

R. Zalman's directness and warmth gave him a unique relationship with the Rebbe, so chassidim would ask him to present their requests. In his diary he records a yechidus in Elul 5728 (1968) where the conversation turned to eating before davening: he repeated to the Rebbe what he had heard from R. Binyomin Althoiz, that when a doctor told Meir Shlomo the rov (the Rebbe's grandfather) to eat before davening he took a 25-kopek coin and traveled to Lubavitch, and the Rebbe Rashab told him that one recites Krias Shema in tefillin and should recite Shmoneh Esrei as well; and that Yehoshua Beshenkovitzer, a rov in Vitebsk, was similarly told by the Rebbe Rashab that since the doctor said to eat early, he should finish davening early and then eat. After hearing him out, the Rebbe said, "Those were early chassidim. Today, one must eat, but not like those in Kfar Chabad who eat bread and herring."

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Singing a Nigun and Understanding a Nigun

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 391-392, no. 17

When the nigun that the Rebbe Rayatz had named "The Beinoni" was sung in Leningrad, he said, "I am not a singer; my father was a singer." The narrator raises a difficulty: the Rebbe's sichah of Lag B'Omer 5709 (1949) contains his own notes from 20 Iyar 5656 (1896), written when he was sixteen, describing in detail the nigun his father davened with and the meaning of each of its three stanzas. The resolution offered is that singing a nigun and understanding a nigun are two different things.

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Yechidus at Its Set Time — and a Blessing for Shedrin

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 150-151, no. 23

Yechidus was hard for the tomimim of Tomchei Temimim to obtain, so when one had a small question he would watch for an opportune moment to catch the Rebbe, since the Rebbe had said that yechidus must be attended at its scheduled time, because beforehand he gives tzedakah and asks the Eibershter that his advice succeed. When the narrator's brother Baruch had to travel from Lubavitch to Shedrin, where there was a branch of Tomchei Temimim, he found such a moment and told the Rebbe he was traveling there. The Rebbe answered, “You should study there, and daven and serve the Eibershter” — which the narrator notes marks serving Hashem as a third, further stage.

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The Jew from Tsaritsin Who Rises at Two

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 209-210, no. 18

The narrator recalls that it was, he thinks, on Yud-Tes Kislev 5685 (1924) that the Rebbe described a Jew from Tsaritsin living in a city where people do not go to sleep early, who nevertheless rises every day at 2 a.m., takes up the Siddur, and contemplates what his zeide stood for, what his father stood for, and what he himself stands for. When the narrator repeated this at a farbrengen in Homil on Pesach 5685, R. Shlomo Tomarkin of Karyokovka told him, "Don't you understand? By 'Tsaritsin' he meant the royal family."

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Reb Pesach's Yechidus: Before Davening

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 323-324, no. 9

Reb Pesach Malastovker described to the narrator's zeide his yechidus with the Tzemach Tzedek. Asked what he does before davening, Reb Pesach answered that it is already written — in Likkutei Torah: mikveh, tzedakah and Zohar. The Tzemach Tzedek replied that tzedakah is a mitzvah extending through the entire day, that one is not required to have mesirus nefesh for mikveh, and that his zeide's (the Alter Rebbe's) intention in saying Zohar was Chassidus.

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"How Would He Know To Do So?"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 86-87, no. 18

Der zeide related in the name of the famed chossid Reb Peretz [Chein] of Chernigov, who said, "In all my days it was only this woman who got the best of me." He had come to speak with Rebbetzin Chaya Mussia, and she complained about the Rebbe's weakened state — that he recites everything from the Siddur, even Asher Yatzar. He answered that he had heard the Alter Rebbe in his later years also recited everything from the Siddur. She replied, "If my zeide had not done so, how would he know to do so?"

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"He Called Forth the Shamash" — The Work of R. Leivik

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 241, no. 68

On Yud-Tes Kislev 5685 (1924) the Rebbe looked at R. Leivik, the shamash of the Znamenskaya shul, and quoted "He called forth the shamash and he radiated light." He then spelled out what a shamash's work is: in the morning, when people come and it is still too dark and early to daven, he brings them a Tehillim; it is also his work to see that the children of the baalei-batim learn; and a shamash must know where a housewife buys her meat and similar matters.

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The Knot of the Tefillin

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 53, no. 32

Reb Aizel related that the Alter Rebbe once told the Mitteler Rebbe he was lying down and asked him to stand by the door and wake him for Mincha. Standing at the door, the Mitteler Rebbe saw the bed begin to move about, and suddenly the Alter Rebbe came out and told him to run and call Reuven the sofer to bring a leather strap, whereupon the Alter Rebbe showed him how to tie the knot of the head-tefillin. Der Zeide would add that this was the equivalent of 'Hashem showed him the knot of the tefillin.'

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Tehillim, Not a Nap, for Thursday Night

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 149, no. 21

R. Yisroel Neveler related that as a student in Tomchei Temimim in Lubavitch he was due to come to the Rebbe Rayatz, the Rebbe's son, during the day on Thursday, and arrived late. Asked why he had not come earlier, he explained that he had lain down to rest because he had to stay awake Thursday night. The Rebbe Rayatz replied that sleeping beforehand will not help; to be able to stay awake one must ask the Eibershter and recite the chapter of Tehillim “Yaancha Hashem” (ch. 20).

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The Teachers from Above and the Decree of Conscription

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 288, no. 9

Reb Aizel told his students about the decree conscripting Jews into the Russian military, and about an individual who wept and fasted over it until his teachers came to him from Above. He demanded of them how they could remain silent in the face of such a decree. They answered that they had indeed protested, but once they were shown the pleasure Above that comes from the spiritual refinement produced by it, they were too embarrassed to say that below it counts as an evil decree.

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When the Rebbe Cries, He Cries Too

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 181-182, no. 71

The Rebbe customarily davened the first Maariv of Rosh Hashanah in the small zal. In 5668 or 5669 the narrator was standing on a bench near the wealthy chossid Shmuel Gurary, who held a small siddur, listened to every word from the Rebbe's holy mouth, and was drenched with tears. When the Rebbe recited Ya'aleh veYavo, the older students standing nearby remarked that Shmuel Gurary is a very dear friend of the Rebbe, and when the Rebbe cries, he cries too.

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No Excuses for Mincha

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 207-208, no. 15

On Simchas Torah the Rebbe spoke about davening Mincha. A person who must travel to the Petrogradska side to sell twenty sacks of oats and ten sacks of flour has no excuse when the time for Mincha arrives. And the same is true of a yosheiv ohel sitting absorbed in a deep concept when the clock reaches 4:45 — tearing himself away from that learning to daven is, the Rebbe said, self-sacrifice of the highest order.

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The Rebbe Rayatz Speaks Russian on Brotsky Street

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 408-409, no. 40

In the interrogation following his arrest in 5687 (1927) the Rebbe Rayatz said that he did not speak Russian, and later gave his reasons for saying so. The narrator, however, once heard him speak it: on Motzaei Rosh Hashanah in Rostov, he believes in 5683 (1922), when the landlord wanted to shut down the Beis HaMidrash at 44 Brotsky, the Rebbe came to him and rebuked him in Russian for entering a house of prayer and causing a serious disturbance, calling it both indecent and foolish. The man's face turned red like a thief caught in the act and he hurried away.

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Reb Aizel: "A Prayer That Only Passed Through the Mouth"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 316-318, no. 58

Reb Aizel offered a translation of the phrase from Shema Koleinu, "Ki ata shoimeia tefilas kol peh" — "For You hear the prayer of every mouth." His reading: Hashem hears even a prayer that merely passed through a person's mouth. The excerpt is followed by the chapter heading for the author's grandfather, HaRav HaChassid R. Mordechai Yoel HaLevi Duchman of Homil, with his dates, Yom HaMeyuchas 5596 to 5 Marcheshvan 5679.

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Called Up to the Torah Before the Rebbe Rashab

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 132-133, no. 2

The Rebbe Rashab insisted that a Kohen and a Levi be present for the Torah reading; his attendant R. Nachman was the Kohen, while a Levi had to be sought out in the courtyard. The narrator, a Levi, was at first afraid to be called up in the Rebbe's presence and trembled the first time, but afterward sought out the opportunity during the few weeks before the Rebbe left for the country. He describes the Rebbe's radiant countenance, the way he gazed at the Torah at hagbah while voicing 'Yagdil Torah veya'adir,' and the overwhelming way he said the word 'Psach' in 'Psach libi b'sorasecha.'

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