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Parshas Kedoshim

Two Temimim, Two Answers About the Beard

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 181, no. 70

On Sim­chas Torah 5667 (1906) the Rebbe spoke very strongly41 against rolling up one’s beard. He told the tomim Shmuel Katz­man, “You should obey this with kab­balas ol. ” And to the tomim Shmuel Yitzchak Beuder, a maskil [in­tel­lec­tual chos­sid], he used dif­fer­ent words.

Years later, when the Rebbe was in Ros­tov, he again spoke about this is­sue (not rolling, but… ).42 “ Nu, these days [not rolling the beard] is truly a mat­ter of mesirus ne­fesh , ” he said, “and to con­tin­u­ally de­mand mesirus ne­fesh is very hard to do. ”

  1. In the original: gekehrt di velt. ↩
  2. The Rebbe spoke against removing the beard altogether. ↩
Kabbolas OlLeadershipMesiras Nefesh

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Apparently This Is How It's Meant to Be

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 346-347, no. 47

My zeide once vis­ited a very poor rel­a­tive of the Tzemach Tzedek in Niezhin.

“Why do you re­main silent?” my zeide asked.

“I sent a pidyon once with a chos­sid trav­el­ing to Lubav­itch, ” he an­swered. “The Tzemach Tzedek took the pidyon, but made no re­sponse. And when the chos­sid pre­pared to re­turn home he asked the Rebbe, ‘How shall I an­swer him?’ The Rebbe replied, ‘Look, there are many poor peo­ple. Ap­par­ently, this is how it’s meant to be. ’”

“Nu,” the man con­cluded, “what more can I do?”

(My zeide’s nar­ra­tive in­cluded their names.)

Kabbolas OlEmunahTemimus (sincerity)

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The Melamdim Got Whatever Was in the Pocket

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 195-196, no. 91

R. Yis­roel Neveler re­counted what the gvir R. Nos­son Gu­rary had told him.

When R. Nos­son trav­eled with the Rebbe Rashab to the Al­ter Rebbe’s ohel in Ha­ditch, there were sev­eral gvirim and melamdim who were sched­uled to have yechidus. The Rebbe told R. Nos­son to have the melamdim en­ter first and then the gvirim. But R. Nos­son re­versed the or­der and ad­mit­ted the gvirim first — and also told them to leave their con­tri­bu­tions on the ta­ble.

When they came to the train sta­tion later and the Rebbe asked R. Nos­son whether he had money to pur­chase the tick­ets, the lat­ter was quite sur­prised; he knew with cer­tainty that the gvirim had left be­hind money. “Nu,” the Rebbe ex­plained, “when the melamdim came in af­ter­wards, there was money — and I gave them what­ever there was. ”

Ahavas YisraelCompassionBitachon

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One Needn't Fast — One Needs Krias Shema

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 156, no. 32

A young man told me that when he was a stu­dent in Lubav­itch and came to the Rebbe for yechidus, he handed his note to the Rebbe and told him, “I have been fast­ing. ”

“One needn’t fast, ” the Rebbe said. “One needs to re­cite Krias Shema She’al Hami­tah (be­fore re­tir­ing at night). ”

Kabbolas OlEmes

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