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Yom Kippur

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"After Kol Nidrei They're Already Singing?!"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 337-338, no. 36

My zeide de­scribed the depth of the chas­sidim of yore:

R. Yosef Lubav­itcher20 — also known as Der Fet­ter (Un­cle) Yosele, for he was the Tzemach Tzedek’s un­cle21 — was in Chernigov one Yom Kip­pur, where R. Nochum [Galttman] — a great man, one of Reb Aizel’s ven­er­a­ble stu­dents and a chos­sid of the Mit­teler Rebbe — served as rov. (My zeide called him Rabbi Nochum Chernigover.) Be­fore Kol Nidrei , Der Fet­ter Yosele took his place along a wall, where he stood un­til the fol­low­ing evening.

Now af­ter Neilah the cus­tom among chas­sidim is to sing and, ac­cord­ingly, a joy­ous tu­mult broke out. R. Yosef ran to Rabbi Nochum. “Nochum, ” he ex­claimed, “what an un­prin­ci­pled city22 you have! Af­ter Kol Nidrei they’re al­ready singing?!”

  1. R. Yosef’s father was Rav Yissachar Ber, the rabbinic authority of Lubavitch. ↩
  2. His wife was the sister of Rabbi Shalom Shachne, the Tzemach Tzedek’s father. ↩
  3. In the original: tzelozenne shtutt . ↩
BittulTemimus (sincerity)Perseverance

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The Hunger Itself Enlivens

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 138-139, no. 10

I heard from some­one to whom the Rebbe Ray­atz told:

One erev Yom Kip­pur be­fore the seu­dah maf­sekes (the fi­nal meal) my fa­ther gave me con­tin­ual tasks to do. Then, re­al­iz­ing the sit­u­a­tion, he told me, “Yosef Yitzchak” — he called him by both names — “you haven’t eaten be­fore the fast! Go wash your hands quickly!” I washed and said Hamotzi.

My fa­ther let me eat a k’za­yis (min­i­mum amount) and then said, “Bentsh, it’s late!”

Motzaei Yom Kip­pur the Rebbe Rashab told the Ray­atz, “The po­suk states, ‘Lachayosam bara’av – to sus­tain them in famine ’19 — the hunger, alone, en­livens. ”

  1. Tehillim 33:19. The simple meaning is that Hashem enlivens a person by providing him sustenance in a time of famine. ↩
Kabbolas OlTemimus (sincerity)

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Your Grandfather and Your Father Blessed Me

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 183, no. 74

One erev Yom Kip­pur in Lubav­itch, af­ter Min­cha, I saw the ven­er­a­ble chos­sid R. Pe­sach Ku­per of Tagan­rog come out of the Rebbe’s room wear­ing a tallis and kit­tel, and saw that he had been cry­ing. He had gone in­side, he told me, to ask the Rebbe for his erev Yom Kip­pur bless­ing, and the Rebbe wanted to bentch him.

“I was priv­i­leged, ” he told the Rebbe, “that your grand­fa­ther and your fa­ther each placed their hand on my head when bentch­ing me, and I ask you also to place your hand on my head when you bentch m e.”

R. Pe­sach con­cluded, “He put his hand on my head and burst into tears; both of us wept. ”

HiskashrusCompassionSanctity of a tzaddik

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Standing the Entire Yom Kippur, Then Sitting Down to Learn

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 338-340, no. 37

A sim­i­lar story was told to me by my great -grand­fa­ther, R. Yitzchak Ha­Co­hen Ka­hane­man of Sos­nitza — my zeide’s fa­ther-in-law (who passed away at the age of 99 on the 16 th of Marchesh­van, 5672 (1911) in Homil). He trans­ported to­bacco from Sos­nitza to Riga, and one erev Yom Kip­pur, on the way home from Riga, he passed through Homil. My zeide greeted him briefly, for time on erev Yom Kip­pur is pre­cious.

My zeide stood at his place to daven at Kol Nidrei, and my great -grand­fa­ther Yitzchak, hav­ing con­cluded dav­en­ing, com­pleted all of Tehillim with the minyan. “I glanced over at my Mordechai Yoel, ” my great -grand­fa­ther told me, “and he was still stand­ing and dav­en­ing.” My great -grand­fa­ther lay down to rest and woke up a few hours later — it was Yom Kip­pur, af­ter all — while my zeide stood the en­tire night and day (al­though my great - grand­fa­ther couldn’t say what his son-in-law did dur­ing those few hours he slept).

And when they ended the fast af­ter Maariv my zeide told him, “ Shver, don’t be up­set with me, but Reb Aizel said that af­ter an en­tire day with­out Torah study, one must sit and learn. ” And my zeide went off to study.

BittulKabbolas OlTemimus (sincerity)

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"Hurrying Comes From a Soul's Lowliness"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 137-138, no. 9

It was very late on motzaei Yom Kip­pur, 5675 (1914 ); the Rebbe was in the din­ing room. The Neilah prayer had been late, fol­lowed by Maariv and Kid­dush Lev­anah. I was stand­ing near the wall when Reb­bet­zin Shterna Sarah came in and spoke to the Rebbe about the Rebbe Ray­atz — she was ac­cus­tomed to call him by his first name, Yosef — that he had not yet ended the fast. When he came into the room the Rebbe said to him, “What are you do­ing?”

“I drank a glass of cold wa­ter, ” he an­swered. “We fin­ished dav­en­ing so late that there was time enough for Yechiel the chazan” — who trav­eled around, rais­ing funds for Tom­chei Temimim — “to have vis­ited sev­eral vil­lages al­ready. ”

“I al­ready said long ago that hur­ry­ing comes from a soul’s low­li­ness, ” said the Rebbe. “Sit down. ”

But he didn’t want to.

“You’re start­ing al­ready in the new year?!” the Rebbe gen­tly scolded.

BittulTemimus (sincerity)

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The Erev Yom Kippur Bracha: Nit Andersh

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 155, no. 30

On erev Yom Kip­pur the Rebbe would come out from the door through which peo­ple would en­ter for yechidus [to give his bracha]. On one oc­ca­sion the words of the bracha were, “May the Eiber­shter grant that you be­come aroused with thoughts of true teshu­vah, with a pow­er­ful re­solve for Torah and mitzvos — nit an­dersh (with­out com­pro­mise)” (and a few ad­di­tional words about gash­mius).

Kabbolas OlEmes

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"Go Ask My Father to Say Chassidus"

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 42, no. 19

One Yom Kip­pur, the Al­ter Rebbe called the Mit­teler Rebbe to his room and told him, “There are pos­i­tive Heav­enly forces re­gard­ing your judg­ment for the com­ing year, but there are also many neg­a­tive forces. ”

The Mit­teler Rebbe left the room and went straight to the chas­sidim. “This is an aus­pi­cious time, ” he told them. “Go to my fa­ther and ask him to say Chas­sidus. ”

BittulHafatzas Hamaayanos

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Starting the New Year With a Mitzvah

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 135, no. 5

The Rebbe Rashab was ac­cus­tomed to break his fast motzaei Yom Kip­pur at the house of his mother, Reb­bet­zin Rivkah. On one oc­ca­sion the Rebbe sat at the head of the ta­ble. On a small bu­reau near the door there was a samovar. The Rebbe stood up — and all the chas­sidim stood —walked over to the samovar, poured a glass of tea and served it to his mother.

“Start­ing the new year with a mitz­vah, ” she said.

Power of a mitzvahHumility

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Two Ways to Draw Down Abundance

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 239, no. 64

On motzaei Yom Kip­pur 5688 (1927) the Rebbe said, “My fa­ther told me (he men­tioned the year) that, through two things, one draws down ma­te­rial abun­dance for the en­tire com­ing year: through recit­ing LeDovid Miz­mor with great con­cen­tra­tion on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kip­pur af­ter pray­ing She­moneh Es­rei, and through break­ing the fast motzaei Yom Kip­pur ex­pan­sively. ”

Power of a mitzvah

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The Nigun of a Beinoni

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, pp. 279-280, no. 125

Re­gard­ing the ni­gun known in Lubav­itch as The Beinoni (printed in Se­fer HaNi­gu­nim: Ni­gun #46), I heard the Rebbe speak about it twice in Leningrad.

Once — I think it was Yud-Tes Kislev, 5687 (1926) — he said, “I am not a singer; my fa­ther was a singer. Nev­er­the­less, I see that when Aharon (the chos­sid Aharon Charitonov, the shochet of Niko­layev) com­posed the ni­gun — had he only vi­su­al­ized him­self stand­ing be­fore my fa­ther in yechidus… Some­thing is miss­ing… ”

The sec­ond oc­ca­sion was motzaei Yom Kip­pur, 5688 (1927). Af­ter they sang the ni­gun the Rebbe said, “This is a ni­gun of a beinoni….What is a beinoni? You know… Then, why aren’t you…?

(I wrote this story to the Rebbe Shlita here in Brook­lyn and con­cluded that each per­son can find the mean­ing within him­self, and the Rebbe con­curred.)

Power of a niggunEmesHiskashrus

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A Maamar Every Yom Kippur

As I Heard Them, Vol. 1, p. 410, no. 42

My zeide re­cited a maa­mar ev­ery Yom Kip­pur. (R. Aizel Homiler in all prob­a­bil­ity did the same.)

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